Six

At six months, he was talking, and by ten months, he was walking, and now, at six, he asks questions about heaven, and love, and life, and death. He loves telling people he was born in Florida, and so do I. Our little beach baby. He’s so filled with wonder and hope. They say that time passes quickly with your children, that all of a sudden you look up and they’re walking, and talking, and they’re starting school, and driving, and they’re moving away to start their own lives. Lately, I’m hit with an overwhelming feeling of time passing quickly, too fast for me to grab hold of these moments, too fleeting for me to properly appreciate them. How much longer will he be my little boy? It takes my breath away, and there’s nothing I can do to slow it down. Lord, let him always love me like he does now; let me always be his safe place; let him know we will always be his home; and Lord, let me be around for as many moments of his life that I can.

Happy Birthday, my sweet, hilarious, adventure-seeking, precious boy. I am forever changed by you.

Why Is Everyone in Marketing Now Identifying as a Storyteller?

In recent years, it seems like every marketer and brand enthusiast has adopted the title of "storyteller." You can hardly attend a marketing conference or read a blog post without someone proclaiming themselves a master of the craft. But why has storytelling become such a ubiquitous buzzword in marketing? Is it just a passing trend, or does it hold some substance? Let's dive into the phenomenon and explore why storytelling has taken center stage in the world of marketing.

Kindergarten

He was acting tough in his new school clothes that he had picked out, wearing clothes with sizes that no longer ended in ‘T’ and were covered in big boy sports imagery instead of smiling dinosaurs. He was too cool with his new Pac Man backpack, with his packed-for-the-first-time Pac Man lunchbox, with the cool hemp-and-clay-mushroom-necklace-from-the-90s he had found in one of his daddy’s memorabilia boxes and now proudly used to accessorize his mostly-matching clothes. We had talked all year about what to expect in kindergarten, about how fun it was all going to be, and he was bubbling with excitement all summer, telling everyone how he was starting kindergarten soon. 

The Story of The Bathroom


A few years ago, I was waiting for a friend outside a restaurant bathroom. She was having a wardrobe malfunction and ended up being in the bathroom for a while trying to fix the issue. I sat on a crushed velvet fainting couch just outside the bathroom and watched the people that came in and out, most pretty vocal about their family drama, relationship problems, after-dinner heartburn. Others offering fuel for my imagination with their silent brooding. Sure, some were just there to wash their hands, or use the other facilities, but many were there to air grievances, share gossip, tempt themselves with flirtations. The interconnected waitstaff, the regulars, the strangers. Status disappears in death and in bathrooms. We all have to go sometime.

Dalton

A few weeks ago, my oldest, Wilder, got lost in the woods on the other side of our field. As with most five-year-old boys, he likes to wander. He’s an explorer, often seen with a bag or backpack packed with whatever tools he’s deemed necessary for the day’s journey. A wrench, a bag of goldfish crackers, a spent shotgun shell, once my debit card, and always, always keys. He is also usually accompanied by two of our dogs, Dalton and Dill.

A Letter to My Son: Why We Had Thanksgiving at Waffle House

The line moved slowly, winding through the produce section, inching so slowly. Nat King Cole’s calming timber wasn’t working its magic on everyone in the line, and I felt for the Whole Food’s employees, each one most likely wishing he had put in a time off request sooner than the coworkers who did. Your Daddy joined me to wait, and we tried to guess what everyone’s story around us was on this Thanksgiving Day. No one looked happy, and after an hour I laughed to myself. We were waiting to pick up food that we would never eat. Giving wasn’t going to be easy this year, but I was determined that it was going to be worth it.

Your Blog Sucks. Here’s Why:

This may be hard for some to hear, but all blogs are not created equal. Yes, I know you think your story, your experience, and your POV is important, but how do your readers feel? When it comes to blogging, there are some tricks of the trade to ensure your blog doesn’t suck. Let me help you find your way when it comes to writing and maintaining your blog.

How to Write Your Family Story

Family stories are a great way to capture the moments, relationships, characters, and quirks of a lineage; family stories are often memories of multiple family members that are compiled into an objective narrative that can be passed down for generations. The point of writing your family story is to remember an era as well as the intimacies that made your family unique and that made you who you are. Family stories often share the cultural, social, and political history of the time period in which they are written to fully set the scene. Like memoirs, family stories use narrative components like dialogue, setting, and description to tell a rich story for the audience: your family.

How to Write a Graduation Speech

Graduation is an event marking both achievements and transition. For graduates and those who love them, graduation is an event of both potential and possibility and of reservation and anxiety. There’s the question of: what comes next? Even for graduates who know the college they will attend or the job they will walk into, there is still an element of uncertainty for what the future hold. A great graduation speech will embrace the positives of potential and possibility that comes with change and transition while also quelling the inevitable nerves that arise when one is moving forward into the great, wide unknown.

Why You Should Write Your Own Eulogy (And What It Should Say)

They say two things are for certain in this life: death and taxes. Traditionally, when we die, friends, family, and / or clergy eulogize us. Usually, the final words said about the departed are positive ones that honor the life we led, the love we shared, and the accomplishments and events that mattered most to us. Unfortunately, many eulogies end up being generic word crap, which leaves friends and family even more distraught (assuming you were a decent person and they’re not just showing up to make sure you’ve really left the proverbial building). This is just one reason you should write your own eulogy.

A Grammar Guide for Gen Z

Gen Z, AKA the folks born between 1997 to 2012 (and up to 2015 because as we’ll learn from their grammatical predilections, members of Gen Z don’t do full stops) have followed the Millennial lead in reinventing accepted grammatical norms, which is fine…grammar is the system and structure of a language; it’s not stagnant—it’s living. It makes sense that with the technological revolution that there’d be substantial grammatical shifts. This grammar guide for Gen Z is designed to explain some of the most important modifications.

How to Write Your Airbnb Listing

Writing an Airbnb listing probably seems like a simple-enough task, but you aren’t the only person putting their rental on the market. What sets your listing apart, and why should someone pick your rental over another? Learn how to write a stellar Airbnb listing in a few easy steps!

How to Write Your Book by Writing Your Blog

I’ve always felt like bloggers get a bad rap. There is this notion that bloggers aren’t “real” writers, but what does that even mean? Anyone who spends their time writing is a writer, but for some reason, published authors seem to be the only writers who are taken seriously. However, writing blog posts can ultimately lead you to that published title by helping you flesh out details and see what followers enjoy. Read on to learn about how to write a book by writing a blog.

How to Write a Great Toast

Public speaking can feel terrifying, especially if it’s for an important event or in front of a large group of people. For most of us, public speaking isn’t something we have to regularly do, but at least once in your life, you’ll probably be asked to give a toast. Writing a toast doesn’t have to be panic inducing, for there are many ways to collect your thoughts and convey your message with heart and confidence. Read on to learn about the ins and outs of writing a toast.

What is Keyword Research?

Whether we are opening our browsers to order new shoes or are an entrepreneur looking to bring in more clients to our online platform, understanding keyword research is integral to the task at hand. What is keyword research, and why does it matter? Read on to learn more about keyword research and become an SEO pro

What Does the Pandemic Mean for Writers?

I’ve never wondered what it’s like to be in a gestational state, but thanks to 2020, I found out anyway. Think about it. A year ago, as of this writing, Americans were put on lockdown. We were literally stuck inside for the better part of a year. Everything was confusing. Things got dark (mostly our jokes, but still).We heard lots of voices from the outside, but more often than not, none of it made any sense. The longer we stayed in, conditions were increasingly cramped. Everything, including the freelance writing industry, transformed rapidly, and just as things change rapidly for a new baby in her first year of life, things are still evolving. So, what has changed and what does the Pandemic mean when it comes to work for writers in 2021?

Your Blog Doesn’t Have to be Boring

Despite the fact that blogs are still numero uno in terms of a brand’s content strategy, blogs sometimes get a rep for being boring. The reason is that there is a glut of genuinely boring blogs out there that use cheap tactics to scream for attention and then, when you finally look their way, there’s zero substance. It’s like when your kid interrupts your kundalini meditation to tell you what Chloe or whoever on YouTube did on Minecraft, and before you know it, you’ve glazed over like a donut and fear you may never find anything interesting again. Terrifying. Let us show you how not to bore your audience into a coma.

How to “Work from Home” from Anywhere

Working from home takes a high level of independence and tenacity, but the rewards from the WFH lifestyle are endless! For most of us, we can make our own schedules, wear comfortable clothing, and eat/clean at our leisure. However, one of the best WFH perks is the fact that you can work from home from anywhere! What does that mean, and what does that look like? Read on to find out.